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Why some prefer attended funerals

This article explores the types of attended funerals, their benefits, and how to arrange one when the time comes.

Choosing an Attended Funeral

What is an attended funeral?

When dealing with the death of a loved one, the most important thing is to arrange a farewell that feels right to you—and that you believe they would have wanted. Sometimes, the right choice is an attended funeral. Whether guided by tradition, faith, or the need for community support, an attended funeral can offer comfort and connection.

Types of attended funerals

The most common form of attended funeral in the UK is a cremation, which accounts for around 79% of funerals. Services can take place at a crematorium, church, or other venue, and may be religious or non-religious. You can choose who conducts the service—whether a minister or celebrant—within the time slot booked at the crematorium.

During the service, the body is “committed,” often marked by the closing of curtains. The cremation itself happens afterward, in a separate part of the crematorium. If burial is preferred, you’ll need to purchase a burial plot and arrange the service accordingly, which may include witnessing the burial.

The benefits of an attended funeral

A sense of closure

Attending a funeral soon after a death can help the loss feel more real and offer a clear moment to say goodbye. Many find that witnessing the committal is an important step in beginning the grieving process.

A sharing of grief

An attended funeral gives family and friends the chance to gather, share memories, and support one another in person. This shared experience can be both comforting and healing.

Preserving and making memories

Funerals often create lasting memories. They’re a chance to honour the life of a loved one, reflect on their legacy, and celebrate the joy they brought. Many mourners find comfort and gratitude in simply being present.

Gaining comfort from tradition

Cultural and religious traditions often guide how we say goodbye. These familiar rituals—whether prayers, hymns, or customs—can offer a deep sense of connection and comfort during times of loss.

A feeling of reassurance

The formal setting of a crematorium and the presence of professional staff can offer order and clarity during a difficult time. Knowing your loved one is being cared for respectfully brings peace of mind.

How to arrange an attended funeral

Organising a funeral can feel overwhelming. A professional funeral planner can guide you through the process and help you make the best choices for your loved one. They’ll handle the logistics and ensure everything runs smoothly.

High Street funeral planners tend to have higher costs due to overheads, while online providers often offer more competitive pricing. Funerals with Grace offers personalised funeral planning to help create the right service at a more affordable cost.

Contact us if you need support—we’re here to help you and your family through every step.

We can help with arrangements at any time.

If you are receiving end of life care and haven’t made any decisions yet; or have any questions, you can talk to one of our team 24 hours a day on 0800 471 4689 or email us on support@withgrace.com

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